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Hug like you mean it…

Leather Pride Night last night and Folsom Street East today. It’s the one time of the year when I feel most like I did living in San Francisco: part of a community of affection. In the past few years, the number of people I’ve gotten to know around the New York scene is such that… Continue Reading

New York to Kinksters: Don’t Be It, Damn It…

At last night’s TES meeting someone who has been around New York’s leather life for a long time talked about the “scene getting bland” in the midst of reminiscing about the Hellfire Club. Their observation was not dissimilar to those made many times in my circles, and for the most part everyone seems content to… Continue Reading

Yeah it was still pretty hot…

…even if they cut away from the money shot. I’ve written about stuff like this two years ago, but once again I was somewhat teased with a hot scenario on the idiot box the other night: Stephen Colbert is broadcasting from Iraq this week, and one of the running gags is that he is enlisted… Continue Reading

Pop culture knows what I want…

These days, there are two billboard images that give me that special warm feeling down below to the point that I’ve bean developing a couple of crushlets. Firstly, I’m not much into medical play, but I’ve been hypnotized by the above picture of sneering butch medi-dommme Edie Falco in her new series. Since I don’t… Continue Reading

Sometimes…

…my Saturday afternoons can be very interesting. Tags: daily photo, kink… Continue Reading

Are you trying to tell me something?

Maybe it’s just me, and years of living on the sexual margins have made me all to ready to see hints and innuendo every where I look, but even from my warped perspective, I have to ask what exact message is this woman trying to send with her canvas tote with the shackles and noose… Continue Reading

Raisins and Dog Biscuits…

…are what I need to buy today on the way home. But really this post is about IMsL. This was the first Leather Contest I’ve attended, and only the second title contest (in the late 90′s I was part of helping the Metro Bears put on a run/contest that had very little impact). On the… Continue Reading

Think kink…

I spent most of today at Kink For All, a kind of cross between a conference and speed dating for the alternative sexualities communities. I initially thought I wasn’t going to go at all, as I was getting things done around the house. Then I decided I would drop in for an hour. Once there,… Continue Reading

Horay for ingenuity…

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State of the kink…

I went to a GMSMA meeting last night, my first in at more than a year. I went in response to an email I had received with this header: GMSMA: Is there a future for GMSMA?. The email detailed some of the troubles the organization is having, and the discussion at the event was equally… Continue Reading