Tag Archives: sex

Queer again and where gratitude comes from…

It’s autumn. Lehigh chases patches of sunlight from floor to the bed for their warmth, just as she sought out the cool of the bathroom tile in the summer. Last night was one of those last outbursts of New York street life where people go back to competing for outdoor tables, forgetting that just a… Continue Reading

Send the Kids out of the Room for Big Link Friday…

Wow I had a hard time getting down to writing this week’s BLF. I’d thought I’d gotten the jump on it, but then Inspiration just flew away. So I’m just going to blurt it all out. Without the clever transitions I was envisioning. Some of this stuff is NSFW just so you know before clicking… Continue Reading

Flashing some Fur, and Big Link Friday….

ig link Friday is my sorry attempt at #followfriday as well as a fulfillment of my promise to make this blog more of a resource. Also I’m impressed with the way that people like Thor make their ljs about so much more than the repeated tracks of their obsessions. So here’s some of the stuff… Continue Reading

New York to Kinksters: Don’t Be It, Damn It…

At last night’s TES meeting someone who has been around New York’s leather life for a long time talked about the “scene getting bland” in the midst of reminiscing about the Hellfire Club. Their observation was not dissimilar to those made many times in my circles, and for the most part everyone seems content to… Continue Reading

Folsom Street East…

I’ve been going to this event for something like ten years. Originally I wasn’t going to be attending this one, but circumstances intervened. Spent two hours volunteering at TES’ table, which was a good spot to be during the two by now obligatory downpours, since we had a canopy. I saw so many friends, old… Continue Reading

Splish splash…

So Mike has been in town and yesterday he, I, his friend Karen, and Lolita took ourselves off to five hours of liquid satisfaction at Spa Castle. Bliss is a well placed jet of water. If you’re a New York resident or planning a visit, make your host take you there: it’s like a civilized… Continue Reading

Hooray for Visitors…

Especially hot ones! Tags: daily photo, friends, gnome, sex

I have a new safeword…

The eepc is now running eeebuntu. After messing around with it on a stickdrive for a while, I decided to bite the bullet and ditch the operating system Asus shipped it with. But this is being written on the desktop. I’m seated in my office chair and Lehigh is perched on the bed, pawing at… Continue Reading

I’ve sat next to hotness…

I’m feeling down these past couple of days: cut off, out of it. And physically a bit wrong. The causes are multiple, but a big one is the fact that Monday was the anniversary of Phil’s death. Along with a couple of other dates in the year, it’s become a spot where I have to… Continue Reading

Howdy boys!

Today’s welcome screen from Photobucket. It’s nice to have such personalized service! Tags: gnomes, pranks, sex